Stop Blanketing Black Women’s Dating Lives

Hot take: I don’t like Ciara Miller. In fact I blocked her over a year ago. She was running around with racists culture vultures, aka the Kardashian Jenners. I also don’t watch Summer House. I tried when it first premiered, but it’s too white in a bad way. Like, those are not my type of white people. Mind you I’m a Bravo fanatic, who rates Vanderpump Rules as EGOT tier. Hang it in the Louvre or behind Dorinda Medley worthy television. Faith Stowers scandal and all. I was the one who got Stassi Schroeder, Jax Taylor, Brittany Cartwright and Kristin Doute back on television, by sending receipts of Faith being a hypocrite. She sided with vitriolic whites against me, AFTER I had her back, an upcoming article.

Ciara Miller isn’t a black person I trust, because she enjoys being tokenized. I too grew up with mostly white people, on the Upper East Side. However, I didn’t put being white adjacent on a pedestal the way she does. I made it my mission to have a diverse friend group, I can’t be without other black people. The fuck. Yes everyone has a different story, but hers stems from choosing to be a token repeatedly. Leading to getting played by that barely attractive white boy. Girl, are you serious? He looks like a bottle of mustard. Heinz nigga. Wes, whatever his name is, would have to buy me a ton of shit, wine & dine, for me to still reject him.

The situation certainly has undertones of race, but these articles generalizing the experiences of dating life for all black women, like we’re the last person picked on the team, are inaccurate and insulting. Bringing me to Summer House: Martha’s Vineyard. Obsessed with that show. Cast member Bria Fleming doesn’t have that issue. Sis threw entire temper tantrums, with white boyfriend Simon Marco taking the brunt. That didn’t stop him from flying in and lavishing her entire crew with luxurious, designer gifts. Day one. He knew better.

Then there’s Jordan Emanuel, relentlessly pursued by Alex Propson from Below Deck. She knew he was a good time boy and wanted no parts. Mind you he’s actually good looking and still couldn’t bag her. Even when he was banging her friend, he continued going after Jordan, despite being continually denied.

Ciara Miller is stunning, but she’s basic af. Watching her on Traitors didn’t change my mind. She out her letting mid niggas clown her. If she had mostly black friends this wouldn’t be happening, he’d be dragged within an inch of his life. We’re the tastemakers. We don’t do mediocre, which is why Simon Marco saved his ass with gift giving. Again, this isn’t saying that having fun with black women, then settling for acceptable white women isn’t a thing. It is. I’m just not going to allow the public to make it our only narrative, because it isn’t. Ciara Miller has pretty people privilege, so no one sees how lame she is. Meanwhile I read energy and don’t like her vibe. At ALL. Don’t feel bad, don’t care. Via: Bria.Raven

Martha’s Vineyard Is Messy Television

Let me start off by saying Summer Thomas is the villain this season. I don’t know what happened, but anybody can get the business. Summer makes Shanice Henderson cry during a game, when she says the latter is the worst dresser in the bunch. Mind you, it wasn’t even her turn to answer. Shanice responds by cursing everyone out, going upstairs and sobbing in the bathroom. Endeavoring to comfort Shanice, Bria Fleming proceeds upstairs to find out why she’s triggered. Shanice explains she recently lost her job and can’t splurge on clothes. What does Bria say?
“She doesn’t dress nice either.”
Stunned. The way I would’ve asked Bria to please leave my room. I cannot believe she said that, like what…

Then here comes newbie Noelle Hughley, talking to Alex Tyree with his fine ass and melodic voice, like they’re in a relationship. He just met you and hooked up with the person you came with!! When she said to him, “You’re acting single, but I was acting single last night.” Girl, girl, noooooooooooooo. He is not your man, you don’t know him! And he was interested until you said that! Since Summer didn’t care I was rooting for you, we were all rooting for you!

What really took me over the edge? Amir Lancaster’s recap regarding Phil not being allowed to visit as a house guest. You’ll have to watch Sunday’s episode for that one. Phil violated o.d last year, deadass.

Shout out to Jasmine Ellis Cooper with the black girl math, that’s the exact time it took for me to fix my hair, fucking around at my friend’s beach house. Segueing into Miss Jordan Emmanuel, you are gorgeous with or without hair, it’s actually rude. If you need proof just ask drunk Nick Arrington. That being said, I’m obsessed with this show. Beautiful, well-dressed, intelligent, ambitious, cool, funny black people, who are perfectly unhinged. Everyone is chef’s kiss! Also Preston Mitchum is serving lewks! He’s my vote for best dressed. Do yourself a favor, catch up before the messiness escalates. Also who’s the most emotionally unhinged? Via: Boujee Bravo Bitches

Updated: 4/11/2024 2:39am