A Selfie For Self-Reflection

Everyone knows I’m obsessed with Passion Planners, obsessed. I’ve been ordering them for six years now. At the end of each month, they ask eight questions for self-reflection. I thought I’d share, because introspection is essential to growth.

What or who are you especially grateful for this past month?

What was the most memorable past of this past month? Describe it.

What were the three biggest lessons you’ve learned in this past month?

Review your planner and assess your priorities. Are you happy with how you spent your time? If not, what steps can you take next month to adjust them?

What did you accomplish this past month? What are you most proud of?

How are you different between this past month and the month before it?

Name three things you can improve on this upcoming month. What are concrete actions you can take to work on these improvements?

From 1-10, how do you feel overall about this past month? Via: AndyWarhol.JPG

Mood: Chillin Like A Villain

I’m revived! Sprightly after being utterly exhausted. Better than ever baby. I went out to dinner, ended up at Hudson Yards, not Hudson street, because I read my friends text message wrong, picked up shit for my cat Jagger, then had to stay up to get a new acrylic set and pedicure. A dire situation.
It’s better to go early, fatigued, then later for hours; since Saturday’s are busy af in the afternoon/evening at a good nail salon. Long story short, it wasn’t enough time for a sleep deprived bitch. I’ll tell ya kids, they aren’t kidding when they say hitting your thirties sleep is priority. Some days I live to fucking sleep. Health is wealth and sleep is an integral part in that, especially as you age. All caught up now. Relaxed, high, wined and wined. Overall a great weekend indeed, cheers. Artist: St.AfterCigs

Gong Xi Fa Cai 2023

Happy Lunar New Year! We are now in the year of the water rabbit, the fourth sign in the zodiac. The rabbit symbolizes patience, purity, the moon, confidence and strength. It’s considered to be the luckiest of the animals. The rabbit is a socialite, yet guarded and a bit of an escapist. Overall this is a year to reflect, plan, make deeper connections in love by being open and honest in communication.
It’s also a time for self-care, eat well, exercise, get enough sleep. It’s a time for wealth and prosperity, but don’t take wild financial risk. Focus on professional advancement, development, and networking opportunities. This is a time for gratitude, count your blessings kid.
Find your sign and what it means specifically for you here: https://www.thechinesezodiac.org/year-of-the-rabbit/. Via: Heart Patrick

Goodbye Twenty Twenty Two

Happy New Year

We are infinite souls, here to experience finite time. Duh, that’s why we celebrate it’s passing: New Year’s, birthday’s, solstices, savings, seasons changing…only able to experience it with these bodies. Look at how it leaves it marks us until our time is up. How you spend your time and who you spend it with is important and can bless or block you, remember that as you go into the new year. Karmic’s aren’t just lovers, but friends. What did you learn this year? How are you going to do next year differently? Photographer: Julian Song (@juliannn_song)

Merry Christmas Twenty Twenty Two

Merry Christmas and happy holidays to all. Side note happy heavenly birthday to my grandmother, who watches over and protects me as promised. Hope everyone has much to celebrate, especially the things we take for granted: shelter and warmth during these cold days, food, drinks, clothes, social media, employment, a bevy of things. What are you grateful for? Via:_ElizabethrTaylor_

RHOP Season 7 Episode 9 Is Epic

The last 23 minutes of season 7 episode 9 is pure, unfiltered art. Hands down one of the best episodes to ever air, possibly the best. It was just hit, after hit, after hit. I don’t even know where to begin: Robyn playing Candiace recording dissing everyone, Candiace lying that she never said Karen had an affair, Karen’s speech before storming off, Gizelle collecting rain water, Ashley coming through as Michael Darby’s wife (telling Karen Candiace said she’s cheating, recording the Uber drive from the bar), Candiace coming for Mia’s friend, Mia, Wendy showing up knowing damn well Mia don’t want her there, the editors montage after Karen announced she was leaving after one drink…4 hours later. This is hands down the best season ever, EVER! Thank you Potomac for always understanding the assignment. C’est magnifique. I literally watched the last 23 minutes twice, stunned. Top tier television. Lies, shade, secrets. Via: Housewives Tingz

Put People In Their Place

Honestly, I’ve been too kind. It’s time to clean it up. No one needs to tolerate disrespect, certainly not daddy. I’m in my villain era. I’m about to ruin the lives of those deserving. When people show you who they are believe them. Do you need to put someone in their place? Via: The Soul Awakening & Phaedra Peer

Lana I Love You

After realizing the gravity of what I’m about to do, put my ultimate idol in jail, ruining everything he’s built, I’ve spiraled. The scheming, plotting, revenge, near death, numbed me from it all. This isn’t how I envisioned it going with Mick Jagger, but I’m the only one who can stop him. If I don’t he’ll hurt someone, he’s a psychopath. He’ll be more careful, the people after won’t be able to catch him. I tried my hardest, he left me no choice. The Rolling Stones created me, made me a revolutionary, saved my life, tried to take it. Their music is how I healed.


I didn’t know where to turn. Then I remembered Lana Del Rey. Thank you almighty God for blessing us with the Goddess of Sadness. Her discography is my sustenance, as was getting my nails done (which always makes me happy). I’m starting to think people who don’t understand she’s one of the greatest artist, poets of all time are soulless. Like how do you not get it? Have you not lived? Loved and lost? I love you always Queen of Coney Island. Via: LDR. Gallery