Anti-Slut Shaming Aesthetic

Ladies do what you want, there is nothing wrong with having sexual desires that are deemed slutty. When I was a slut I was epic and found out tons about myself. I learned to enjoy my own company, find love and validation within rather than from others, completed goals because I didn’t have a serious relationship taking up my time and learned what I wanted/needed in a partnership moving forward. Plus I would never feel resentment for not having sown my wild oats. Do the opinions of others affect your sex life? Why (family, friends, societal conditioning…)? Do you judge women’s sexual behavior based on antiquated beliefs? Via: Gunsxbibles Mag, 80s90s00s & Goddamn 333

Walking Home At Night Alone For Women

The incident made us all feel vulnerable, although in different ways.

For Joe it was fear of what might happen to us, his sisters.

But for us, Joe’s sisters, it was fear for ourselves. The man might come back again for Renee
or for me
or for Caroline,

but he would not come for Joe.

Only girls remained at the mercy of men with bad intentions.

Artist: Todd Bienvenu



Women Are Worthy

Dear docile women, you need this. It seems you don’t know your worth beyond being the whim of someone else’s fancy. Ever notice they don’t stick around long, despite your bending over backwards to suit their needs? If you don’t value you no one else will, you’ll attract people looking to break you. Having a voice and standing for something is attractive, stop co-signing archaic traits of what women are suppose to be. Have a blessed day. Do you shrink yourself for the love and approval? Via Sheerahr & Foxwood Drive

A Woman’s Place…

Is wherever she wants it to be. Women are people with different goals and ideals pertaining to how we want to live our life. Stop putting pressure on us to fulfill roles set by the patriarchy, deeming us useless if we can’t meet your societal standards/deadlines. Stop asking women when they are going to get married or have children, like it’s an obligation. How about do you want instead. Better yet mind your business. Women have the right to choose. Are you someone who pressures women to fit into societal stereotypes? Are you a woman being harangued about your life decisions? Artist: Lainey Molnar

Disclaimer For The New Year

Time is definitely an illusion, although 2020 pretended to be a mere twelve months it was actually five years. Just one thing after another, after another, outlandish, wild things, things we never imagined, or thought possible before. This life altering year ends tomorrow and I don’t know how to feel about it to be honest. On one hand it started out great, then went terrible, then beyond my wildest dreams. One things for sure it was a tumultuous rollercoaster for everyone, all of us had to adjust to a new normal. Reminded how the things we took for granted was the universe expressing love and freewill. Let that be one thing you take into the year 2021, but leave the things on this list behind. What do you want to leave in 2020 and bring into 2021? Regarding each category on the sign, what was something new that you learned? Via: Elacee Music

Things Not To Believe

It is a common saying that women are delicate creatures,

flowers,

eggs,

anything that may be crushed in a moment’s carelessness. If I had ever believed it, I no longer did.

Happy Birthday Tina Turner

Tina “Legs” Turner this belated birthday goes out to you. A phoenix who rose from the ashes of abuse and became more iconic than the man who built her career while trying to destroy her. You were a queen then and you’re a queen now. Your story helped shape me into the woman I am today (including the music duh). Thank you. What’s your favorite Tina Turner song?

Things To Consider…

When voting, you don’t have to agree with everything the candidate does. I for one realize every four years I have to pick between two lesser evils. I’m not chomping at the bit to serve two parties that were created for white men, by white men, I was considered property, which means I wasn’t considered at all. Still this is an extremely important election, one that means life and death in many ways. Here is why I’m voting for Biden:

  • Coronavirus: Everyone needs to wear a mask! This is going to be one of the darkest winters, many people will die due to Covid and the flu. This isn’t a political debate, it’s a fact of life. We cannot return to normalcy unless we take the necessary precautions.
  • Climate Change: The world is dying! We have less than ten years before the tipping point is irreversible. There is no planet B, just Earth! Space isn’t an option as cute as the fantasy sounds.
  • Human Rights: Women deserve the right to choose, immigrant’s deserve better treatment, white supremacy is not okay, police brutality needs to end…that’s just the tip of the iceberg.
  • Healthcare: Should be accessible to more people. Human lives should come before anything

Vote him out, we literally can’t afford to have it any other way!!! Can you think of something I missed?

Clinging To A Rope

See it all the time.
You are not a rug some man is standing on in a sixties advert.
Or a female dangling off the side of a cliff, clinging to a rope unequipped to hold your weight. Waiting for permission to live, or die from your “owner.”
An easily discarded piece of property, an object.
Here’s a reminder of the female plight we continue to fight: https://www.businessinsider.com/26-sexist-ads-of-the-mad-men-era-2014-5#1959-woman-are-a-drag-9 ( Please notice these are white women, with traces of Stand By Your Man on full display to this day. Problematic white women check yourselves, you’re conditioned until you’re not).

Do your part, use your voice. Love yourself enough to command respect. Which role do you play one who uses their voice, or an objectified being?Via: The Female Lead