Peace Or Peace Out People

However you want to spin it, the message is the same- choose your peace. Anyone adding stress, toxicity, chaos to your life shouldn’t be in it. Are you giving your time to those deserving of it? Via: Speak To JayJay & Sassy Hype Empire

The Past Two Years Aptly

Story of my life. Both years played out this way precisely. I’m so much happier now, because my toxic ex isn’t taking my energy. He was draining af, the constant drama he created around the simplest things. The abuse. Urgh, a headache. He lives in fights, power struggles, not love and partnership. I feel alive again, plus I’m set for life. I hope you win this year, or this post invigorates you to keep going, keep pushing. Via: Deep.LyFallen

Self-Love With Queen Ze

I don’t know who needs to hear this, but here you go. Prioritize yourself and everything else will fall into place. Life is too short to accept draining toxicity. Talk to yourself nice, treat yourself nice, fucking go for it. Fear and crippling self-doubt is no way to live. If it makes it easier, pick one as your mantra this week and act accordingly, especially if you’re sacred. Via: A Sophisticated Me

Living With Love Lost

Let things end for better to come in. Don’t hold onto something to avoid feeling like a failure. Sometimes walking away can be hard, you invested so much time into someone and it feels like a waste. For women there’s the added stress of our biological clock ticking, don’t settle. Having kids with someone is forever. Everyday I thank god someone saved me when I couldn’t save myself, that I didn’t have children with Mick Jagger. Then I could never get rid of him. Now all the women who did are about to suffer more than just the abuses he inflicts. His family goes down in flames, then spend eternity there. Imagine the father of your child be a psychopath, soon to be sex offender about to go to jail, who held someone hostage, abusing them to the point of asking someone to kill them just to escape. Imagine co-signing that, as Luciana Giminez and Jerry Hall did most of all. I’m going to make sure you all lose you jobs and everything you love and jail you too, you’re gross people. He has never loved anyone, he’s incapable. That being said, can you live with love lost? Via: Audrey_Emmett

Loving Someone Vs. Being In Love

You can be in love with someone and not love them. The former is a feeling, the latter is an action. Two different things. Loving someone is expressed by caring for them, treating them properly, nurturing them, being affectionate, supporting them, prioritizing their happiness, not abusing them. Know the difference. Via: Goddamn.333

Needed This: Lovers That Destroy

Never be ashamed
Of how deeply and passionately
You loved someone who destroyed you,
Because destroying things is just who they are…

But loving things deeply and passionately is who you are.
Photographer: Cho Gi-Seok

Reason Behind Ignoring Red Flags

In the past I ignored red flags like no other, painting people how I wanted them to be. Seeing their potential, not who they actually are. Trust in red flags, it’ll save you the future trouble of a relationship that isn’t gonna work. Be it friendship, family, or lover. Do you ignore red flags? Why? Has it bitten you in the bottom? Via: Curly_Therapist

Allowed To Cut You Off

Don’t get offended, give people the same freedom and space you would like. Sometimes you trigger things in them and they can’t deal. Respect their decision the way you want yours respected. How do you handle being cut off? Via: Tarunvmishra

What Healthy Looks Like

Be with someone who is worthy of you, make sure you reciprocate the same energy. Are you in a healthy, happy relationship, or are you settling? If the latter why (loneliness, low self-esteem, societal benchmarks…)? Via: Happy Not Perfect

Pick One To Cut Out Today

Emotions and thoughts shape your reality, talk about low vibrations these are it. Ever evolving creatures, there will always be something to refine. To live a high vibrational life you have to replace these negative emotions with positive ones like: love, happiness, gratitude, forgiveness, self-respect…Choose something from this picture to fix, maybe it’s another low energy that isn’t included. Personally I don’t experience jealousy it’s a pointless emotion (it does nothing for the person feeling it, nor does it hinder the person you’re envious of), but boy am I always on the receiving end (“friends”, a business partner who would cut her nose to spite her face, gay men who have friends they want to fuck, who want to fuck me, hi Roger Chillingworth and your clown ass crew, also the reason I unfollowed that model who thinks he can hang out with people who racially disrespect me like he’s exempt, insecure women who love the men who love me, people who want to be black, people who seek the attention I fight tooth and nail to avoid, toxic family members…this is why I keep things to myself). Be honest, what do you need to work on today?

I’ve been working on the grudge ball. As someone who can efficiently dismantle people who cross me, it can be hard not to seek vengeance. Especially when minding my business. In the past my lesson was to stand up for myself, now it’s about letting go. Balance is key, every lesson has a time and a place. So instead of reminding the basic, vapid, idiotic, superficial people who couldn’t buy the experiences I have, who despite my saying it a million times don’t understand I value the things that have meaning. If I wanted the things you covet I could have them, how is it that you know me again? Exactly. Not only will I have those material items on my own terms, but I have a spiritual fulfillment most of you will never achieve. You’re too focused on the external. I wake up without that void that consumes you everyday and for that I feel bad for you. So I forgive you, gods got it. Hopefully one day you’ll experience this true joy, to know yourself whole. Artist: Sammy Jo