What Healthy Looks Like

Be with someone who is worthy of you, make sure you reciprocate the same energy. Are you in a healthy, happy relationship, or are you settling? If the latter why (loneliness, low self-esteem, societal benchmarks…)? Via: Happy Not Perfect

Pick One To Cut Out Today

Emotions and thoughts shape your reality, talk about low vibrations these are it. Ever evolving creatures, there will always be something to refine. To live a high vibrational life you have to replace these negative emotions with positive ones like: love, happiness, gratitude, forgiveness, self-respect…Choose something from this picture to fix, maybe it’s another low energy that isn’t included. Personally I don’t experience jealousy it’s a pointless emotion (it does nothing for the person feeling it, nor does it hinder the person you’re envious of), but boy am I always on the receiving end (“friends”, a business partner who would cut her nose to spite her face, gay men who have friends they want to fuck, who want to fuck me, hi Roger Chillingworth and your clown ass crew, also the reason I unfollowed that model who thinks he can hang out with people who racially disrespect me like he’s exempt, insecure women who love the men who love me, people who want to be black, people who seek the attention I fight tooth and nail to avoid, toxic family members…this is why I keep things to myself). Be honest, what do you need to work on today?

I’ve been working on the grudge ball. As someone who can efficiently dismantle people who cross me, it can be hard not to seek vengeance. Especially when minding my business. In the past my lesson was to stand up for myself, now it’s about letting go. Balance is key, every lesson has a time and a place. So instead of reminding the basic, vapid, idiotic, superficial people who couldn’t buy the experiences I have, who despite my saying it a million times don’t understand I value the things that have meaning. If I wanted the things you covet I could have them, how is it that you know me again? Exactly. Not only will I have those material items on my own terms, but I have a spiritual fulfillment most of you will never achieve. You’re too focused on the external. I wake up without that void that consumes you everyday and for that I feel bad for you. So I forgive you, gods got it. Hopefully one day you’ll experience this true joy, to know yourself whole. Artist: Sammy Jo

Add Tax To Your Existence

Both sentiments I stand by. Just last week I had the biggest revelation and appreciation for all the mistakes and failures I’ve survived. If I hadn’t dated toxic men, or been around horrible people I’d believe glitter was gold. I am so thankful for all my falls, it’s made me wiser, in turn making life easier to navigate. Also grateful that I value myself. If someone isn’t treating you with respect leave them and don’t look back. You tell people how to treat you with boundaries, or lack thereof. Which one of these do you need to work on, loving your failures or knowing your worth? Via: Amber X Irene