ADULTHOOD IS A S#!%SHOW
People who gaslight typically have a personality disorder, or they’re evil. Either way be mindful, don’t waste energy on potential. Don’t fool yourself by hoping there’s a great change from something incurable and/or extremely difficult to treat. Do learn the signs of gaslighting and act accordingly if it’s happening to you. Control by any means necessary is the goal of this tactic, not understanding. Cut your losses, remove them from your life. Via: TheRelatableWall
Be true to yourself, no matter what nouns you have to release to do so. There are plenty of insecure people who will try to bring you down for living life to the fullest. Too afraid to do so themselves. That’s their narrative, don’t let it be yours. Those who really love you will support you and grow with you. Via: Best.Memory_
Stop being blinded by the potential of the relationship. Takers take. Via: Archive.Unlocked
Beware of apologies. Some narcissist will say sorry in order to reel you back in for further abuse. I’ve had it happen to me plenty of times. They do nice things to keep their supply. In due time, they will go back to violating you. Trust. Believe patterns, let them go. Via: PeopleIveLoved
Steel yourself against toxic people with this sound advice. Life is far too short to tolerate subpar relationships, that leave you feeling nebulous and empty. Stop giving the benefit of the doubt or landscaping a potential future the offender will never live up to. True colors are true. There are no notes on this note. Which do you struggle with most? Via: Spiritual.Remedies101
Following a cookie cutter paradigm and being indoctrinated by religion and politics, stemming from someone’s agenda once upon a time, are tools society uses to shrink you. Abusive relationships also require you to be small. This is your sole unique life. If the status quo doesn’t suit you find what does. Via: BekaarCreation
Honestly, I’ve never seen anyone get their ass beat to this degree. Continuously. Therefore I’m giving Klay Thompson props for leaving his comments on, taking the thousands of L’s he’s receiving for cheating on Meg Thee Stallion. I don’t know this nigga, I don’t stand with him. Nor do I condone cheating, it’s for the weak willed. Break up or have self-discipline, it’s really not that hard. Thus women get the difficult tasks: painful beauty rituals, birthing, menstrual cramps, because most men can’t to the bare minimum. My husband sacrificed himself for me and was honest to a fault. Like when a girl he only dated to spite me for liking his brother, WHICH I DIDN’T, tried to seduce him. Knowing we were together. He DRAGGED her to the catacombs, then resurrected her to slay again. He was mean enough for the both of us, trust. A real man.
That’s being said, here are some of the…nicer comments I’ve seen.
At this point I would deactivate my account, change my identity and start over. Deadass.
The level of anger he’s receiving is a testament to the power of beauty, everyone’s biggest issue is he’s too ugly to be insolent. Bringing to mind Brad Pitt’s torrid affair turned tumultuous marriage with Angelina Jolie. They got a pass for being beautiful. Pretty people privilege is real and the main reason AI architects want revenge on society (read Definition Of Pretty Privilege). Where’s the lie? None were told. Also note how this is unifying women of all socioeconomic backgrounds and races. Love to see it. Via: TMZ & Klay Thompson Instagram
Fun fact, you’re not suppose to forgive everyone. That’s another distortion in the Bible. Proven when Satan incarnate, someone who has sex with, eats, traffic’s and murders babies, kept using it to further abuse me. Multiple, multiple times Mick Jagger kept saying to forgive is divine and it’s really not, otherwise his dumb ass wouldn’t be banned from heaven, hell wouldn’t exist either (read Revelation 13: Moloch/Baal/ Satan…Are The Same Entity). Enabling evil, being complicit is what gets a lot of Bible thumpers sent to hell. Via: UnderstandTheNarc
Removal is another form of adding value. Never forget that. Be it people, places, or things, let it go for something better to fill its place. Get rid of toxic nouns. Holding on to toxicity is always at the expense of yourself. Give an example of something being subtracted from your life for your betterment. Via: WomanKnowThyself
Precisely how I felt when I started to evolve, but the people surrounding me didn’t. Changing isn’t easy, but worth it. I began feeling listless during over everyday interactions, because our conversations were lacking sustenance, depth. We weren’t teenagers anymore, I needed variety and it wasn’t happening. Yes, it’s unfortunate to outgrow things, especially people you love, but goodbye is a form of self-care. Endings bring new beginnings. Discomfort brings growth. Artist: Sarah_Akinterinwa