You’re Not Suppose To Forgive Everyone

Fun fact, you’re not suppose to forgive everyone. That’s another distortion in the Bible. Proven when Satan incarnate, someone who has sex with, eats, traffic’s and murders babies, kept using it to further abuse me. Multiple, multiple times Mick Jagger kept saying to forgive is divine and it’s really not, otherwise his dumb ass wouldn’t be banned from heaven, hell wouldn’t exist either (read Revelation 13: Moloch/Baal/ Satan…Are The Same Entity). Enabling evil, being complicit is what gets a lot of Bible thumpers sent to hell. Via: UnderstandTheNarc

God Adds Value By Subtracting

The math, maths.

Removal is another form of adding value. Never forget that. Be it people, places, or things, let it go for something better to fill its place. Get rid of toxic nouns. Holding on to toxicity is always at the expense of yourself. Give an example of something being subtracted from your life for your betterment. Via: WomanKnowThyself

What Outgrowing Relationships Feels Like

Precisely how I felt when I started to evolve, but the people surrounding me didn’t. Changing isn’t easy, but worth it. I began feeling listless during over everyday interactions, because our conversations were lacking sustenance, depth. We weren’t teenagers anymore, I needed variety and it wasn’t happening. Yes, it’s unfortunate to outgrow things, especially people you love, but goodbye is a form of self-care. Endings bring new beginnings. Discomfort brings growth. Artist: Sarah_Akinterinwa

Salt Isn’t Sugar By Rupi Kaur

Stop settling for abusive, toxic relationships, mistaking it for love. Also dig deeper, why are you tolerating this behavior? Where does it stem from? Salt isn’t sugar. Reflect, apply the lesson, evolve. Via: MagicalLine

The People Around You Reveals Everything

Make no mistake, you are the company you keep. The people in your social circle reveals your character. Humans are tribal. This trait is how Homo sapiens dominated the other homo species, like Neanderthals. Terminating their existence with our superior social skills and team work.

Review yourself objectively solely by looking at your clique. What do you deem acceptable? What do you have in common? What do you tolerate? What do they contribute to your life? Is that contribution a blessing or a block? Are you happy? Via: Gary Owens

Monday Mood: Disable The Opps

Keep your foot on their necks this week, by putting people in their place. Disable the opps, instead of enabling them. Which is your favorite?

Artist: VintageShinDig

PSA: A Time And A Place With Selena

This Selena photoshoot epitomizes my duality. How you step to me, is how I’m going to respond to you. At first I was compassionate, kind, giving grace- Pavarti. A demure girl. Until my kindness was taken for weakness. The insolence transforming me into my take no prisoners, pull-up and get fucked up variation- Kali Ma…bitch.

There’s a time and a place, act accordingly. When someone tries you, set boundaries by standing up for yourself. People treat you the way you allow them to. Don’t cower, be assertive. Otherwise you’re enabling depravity. How will they learn if you let everything go? Sometimes you’re the lesson for someone else. Which one of my forms do you need to embody today & why? Photographer: John Dyer

Friendship Health Chart

The company you keep is incredibly important, make sure you’re with the right people. They can be blocks or blessings. It’s better to be alone than amongst frenemies. If you’re having trouble discerning where people fall in your life, here’s a chart. Give your energy and time to healthy relationships only, life is too short for toxicity. Via: Janeel.Monae

Narcissistic Family Love Looks Like

Unfortunately there is no cure for narcissism, the only treatment is extensive and consistent therapy. Something that can only happen if the narcissist is willing to see their faults and seek help, an unlikely scenario. Otherwise don’t waste your time, they know exactly what they’re doing. This is a vicious personality disorder, the demon attached to it is Leviathan, filling them with pride and darkness.

A narcissist ALWAYS needs a scapegoat to project on. They will always find a replacement, needing a supply, while putting on a facade to everyone else of being a good person. One of the best things you can do is document everything, otherwise you’re allowing them and the people they control to narrate your story. I don’t play that shit, mama always has receipts. You’re not crazy, they are. Via: Say_No_To_Narcissistic_Parents

PSA: Throw Judas Away

Normalize cutting the head off snakes, no matter how long it takes to complete the mission. I’ve axed friends, family, co-workers, exes, anyone who has consistently exhibited betrayal as a trait. Ten years ago it would’ve taken longer. My self-worth increased the more I healed and so did my rapid reactions. Bitch bye.

I’ve been backstabbed by all the aforementioned groups. My husband has never been disloyal in life or death, dying to protect me (in turning saving the world) and niggas can’t even do the bare minimum. The same people who I’ve helped and wouldn’t be here without me. No one comes before my baby. Do yourself a favor, trash Judas. There are billions of people in this world, make the upgrade. Via: Love.Quotes