What Outgrowing Relationships Feels Like

Precisely how I felt when I started to evolve, but the people surrounding me didn’t. Changing isn’t easy, but worth it. I began feeling listless during over everyday interactions, because our conversations were lacking sustenance, depth. We weren’t teenagers anymore, I needed variety and it wasn’t happening. Yes, it’s unfortunate to outgrow things, especially people you love, but goodbye is a form of self-care. Endings bring new beginnings. Discomfort brings growth. Artist: Sarah_Akinterinwa

Resting In A Hustle Culture

Stillness is underrated. Most people can’t handle it, because they’re programmed to go, go, go, especially in America. It also requires you to spend time with yourself, which is difficult for the low vibrational. Accepting oneself as is is easier said than done, but worth it.

The people who constantly need companionship or sound fear facing their true colors. They don’t love themselves. Trust me I’ve been there. Shedding trauma, letting go, going inward, holding yourself accountable is extremely difficult. Nothing could be more rewarding though. It’s the only way to evolve. Rest, recharge, realign. Artist: WordsAreVibrations

Embrace Destruction, Build Something Better

To build a better, safer world, the old version needs to be demolished. What you’re witnessing is the old guard falling as we ascend into 5D. All the nouns tied to it being shed, masks and veils being lifted. The only constant is change and you can’t change the world until you understand how it really works. Embrace the destruction. What do you want to rise from the ashes of old? Artist: Tyler_Spangler

Be Kind To Others And Yourself Too

I’m my toughest critic, which is a good thing except when overdone. In this dog eat dog world you’re attacked enough, give yourself grace. To be human is to be imperfect. Accept this fact. Let go of the little things and take baby steps to evolve into a better you. What’s something you like about yourself? It can be habit, a physical trait, a characteristic etc. Via: PauvreOison

Ten Signs You’re Growing

Another sign is responding the to same situations differently. Oftentimes this is tested by putting you in the same circumstance, to see if you’ll apply the lesson. This happened to me a few days ago and it feels stupendous to see my growth in action. Which of these applies to you currently? Via: MindBodyGreen

Your Only Competition

Stop paying attention to everybody else, the only person you should be competing with is yourself. Trying to be a better version of who you were the day before, week before, year before, ten years before. This is how you tune into happiness and fulfillment. Learn the lesson, apply it. Evolve. Via: 2000sAnxiety

Pick One: Evolve OR Repeat

Take accountability for your freewill decisions. Every day you choose between staying stagnant, sticking to your comfort zone, repeat. Or working harder to become a better version of yourself, evolve. Remember baby steps forward, are still steps. Which are you choosing going forward? Via: LedByHeart

With The Right People You Grow

Be mindful of the people in your life. I can’t stress this enough! Exchanging energy with the wrong people keeps you stagnant, low vibrational and blocks your blessings, preventing abundance. Your social circle says everything about you. If you’re evolving and the people around you aren’t, LEAVE. Sometimes you have to isolate to elevate, trust me it’s worth it. Eventually you’ll find the tribe that matches your new frequency. This is how you know with the right people you grow, because misery loves company, keeping you stationary or pulling you down with them. Are there folks you need to weed out? Why? Via: PageMindCore

A Hard Truth: Focus On You

Changing is worth the nouns you lose. You aren’t here to live someone else’s dreams, nor play the role they’ve assigned you. It’s your fucking life. Focusing on my growth forced me to get rid of stagnant, low vibrational people holding me back. Had I done it their way I wouldn’t be fucking iconic. Let them go if it means keeping yourself, the only way to elevate is to evolve. Via: Bandaid For Heart

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Own Your Toxicity And Fix It

Recognize toxic traits, be it from the people in your life, or yourself.
So many people gaslit me when I’m a literally a victim of domestic violence, racism and more and it’s not okay. Then you wonder why I’m apathetic to the destructive byproduct of my anger. The way black women are vilified, mistreated and invalidated isn’t okay. Everyone who did this, especially other black women, will pay. There’s a special place in hell for people like you. Own that you’re a toxic person, that’s why you’re in this mess. You’re a gross, vile, low-vibrational, evil and/or envious human being, who has contributed to and perpetuates all that is wrong with humanity. Period. Creating a false narrative about someone you’re jealous of, who you assumed things about, rather than asked. Showing your true shitty colors. Spend the same time you did bumping your gums to spread lies and hatred, to apologize and work on your nasty traits. Keep that same energy you had for me, when you look in the mirror and confront yourselves.

It’s amazing how little accountability people take, if you talked the talk, be adult enough to own your shit, especially when you’re wrong and apologize. Then go fix yourself, instead of focusing on somebody else. You’d be a lot further along, trust. That’s why I’m blessed and so highly favored I’m a Goddess, doling out your karma and fate. I don’t possess these traits, because I’m an introspective, self-aware person, aiming to be better than myself. Not better than my friends, not better than my family, not better than my co-workers, but myself. That’s the difference between us. When I see something terrible about myself I own it, work on breaking the pattern, no matter how hard. I don’t project my inner self-loathing, nor spread my crappy circumstances onto other people, to make myself feel better for five seconds. That’s how you grow into a healthy, mature, happy adult. Who feels good about who they are and loves themselves. You can’t say that, because happy hoes ain’t hating and hating hoes ain’t happy. Unless you have certain types of mental and/or personality disorders, there’s no excuse. Do you possess these toxic traits? What are you doing to fix it? Do you know someone who does? Are you being honest with them? Toxic people and behavior block your blessings. Via: Nedra Tawwab