Narcissists Pretend To Be Good People

As long as a narcissist has a supply, as in a person to abuse, they will pretend to appear benevolent to everyone else. If that supply were subtracted from their environment, they would find another victim. They have a personality disorder rendering most of them incapable of moving past darkness, because Leviathan, the demon of pride, rules them. When people can’t apologize or take accountability through change and action, it’s because they’re of his legion. All the good things they do are performative, it’s a symptom of their disorder. Being able to study it up close, I’ve seen these types of people can’t be helped. Document everything, because they’re manipulative liars until the very end. Via: Narcissist_Abuse_LifeCoach

Life Advice: Accept, Let Go,Unlearn

Apply the lesson to progress. It could be setting boundaries, letting go of people who no longer belong in your life, or being discerning with whom you take advice from. Those are the things that weigh you down energetically and block your blessings. Which of these lessons do you need to work on? Via: NatalieeNamaste

What Is Gaslighting?

For those who think they aren’t going to be held accountable, after being extremely toxic and complicit with evil. Sans apologies. Invalidating someone’s reality is another form of abuse. It’s dehumanizing and traumatic. This is unacceptable behavior. If someone is gaslighting you act accordingly, ditch them. Never look back. They know WTF they’re doing. Who needs to be removed? Via: BreakingUpWithToxic

PSA: Integrity Is Everything

Running around attacking people, because you can, is so fucking lame. I would never hang out with a majority of these elite losers. They’re miserable, boring, depraved. I can’t imagine wasting precious time: bullying people from troll accounts, being hateful performative activists, being complicit and enabling evil at the detriment of civilization. Trust, I’m cooler than every fucking one of you, that’s why y’all stay biting. You could never. I’m your karma. Do you have integrity? It’s everything. Via: Divine_.Connection

Don’t Waste Your Time On Shitty People

Respect yourself enough to ditch people that don’t do it for you. Otherwise you’re wasting time you’ll literally never get back. You only live once as this person, tomorrow isn’t promised. Use this finite time to create the life you want. Who are you tolerating and need to dump? Via: Sick_Feelingz

Love Them And Let Them Go

More people need to understand this, you can wish others well and let them go their own way. If someone wants to be in your life after hurting you, they need to prove themselves worthy. Life is far too short to spend with people who are toxic, trust me you’ll be better off. Love yourself enough to chuck the deuce when someone isn’t respecting you. Via: Seconds Apart

Own Your Toxicity And Fix It

Recognize toxic traits, be it from the people in your life, or yourself.
So many people gaslit me when I’m a literally a victim of domestic violence, racism and more and it’s not okay. Then you wonder why I’m apathetic to the destructive byproduct of my anger. The way black women are vilified, mistreated and invalidated isn’t okay. Everyone who did this, especially other black women, will pay. There’s a special place in hell for people like you. Own that you’re a toxic person, that’s why you’re in this mess. You’re a gross, vile, low-vibrational, evil and/or envious human being, who has contributed to and perpetuates all that is wrong with humanity. Period. Creating a false narrative about someone you’re jealous of, who you assumed things about, rather than asked. Showing your true shitty colors. Spend the same time you did bumping your gums to spread lies and hatred, to apologize and work on your nasty traits. Keep that same energy you had for me, when you look in the mirror and confront yourselves.

It’s amazing how little accountability people take, if you talked the talk, be adult enough to own your shit, especially when you’re wrong and apologize. Then go fix yourself, instead of focusing on somebody else. You’d be a lot further along, trust. That’s why I’m blessed and so highly favored I’m a Goddess, doling out your karma and fate. I don’t possess these traits, because I’m an introspective, self-aware person, aiming to be better than myself. Not better than my friends, not better than my family, not better than my co-workers, but myself. That’s the difference between us. When I see something terrible about myself I own it, work on breaking the pattern, no matter how hard. I don’t project my inner self-loathing, nor spread my crappy circumstances onto other people, to make myself feel better for five seconds. That’s how you grow into a healthy, mature, happy adult. Who feels good about who they are and loves themselves. You can’t say that, because happy hoes ain’t hating and hating hoes ain’t happy. Unless you have certain types of mental and/or personality disorders, there’s no excuse. Do you possess these toxic traits? What are you doing to fix it? Do you know someone who does? Are you being honest with them? Toxic people and behavior block your blessings. Via: Nedra Tawwab

You’re Still A Good Person

There’s a time and a place, being kind all the time is why they mistake it for weakness. Set boundaries. Some people need to be told off, otherwise you’re enabling bad behavior. Via: Vintage.Art.Witch

How Toxic People Feel Power

Being toxic is a choice. Toxic people more often than not know what they’re doing and have no plans of changing. Unless they have a personality disorder, they know and enjoy testing other’s boundaries. It’s a game to them, your time, your mental health, it makes them feel powerful. It’s up to you to draw the line, by growing a backbone. If someone isn’t respecting you, ditch them. I said it once I’ll say it again, people are blocks or blessings to your abundance. Choose you. Choose healthy relationships.
I dumped all the people that fit this description and the rewards of doing so are more than I could’ve dreamed. Trust me kick them out of your life. Are there people in your life testing what they can get away with. How do they make you feel? What are you gonna do about it? Via: The Female Warhol

The Past Two Years Aptly

Story of my life. Both years played out this way precisely. I’m so much happier now, because my toxic ex isn’t taking my energy. He was draining af, the constant drama he created around the simplest things. The abuse. Urgh, a headache. He lives in fights, power struggles, not love and partnership. I feel alive again, plus I’m set for life. I hope you win this year, or this post invigorates you to keep going, keep pushing. Via: Deep.LyFallen