Cats, The Ultimate Hustlers & Con Artists

One thing about a cat, they’re go getters with self-respect. A cat will straight up leave your ass if mistreated. Keep in mind they domesticated themselves, seeing babies living the good life they wanted in. That’s my theory, substantiated by their premium imitation abilities when communicating with humans. You think that cat moved in or nah? Via: ThatKittenUniverse

Life Advice: Accept, Let Go,Unlearn

Apply the lesson to progress. It could be setting boundaries, letting go of people who no longer belong in your life, or being discerning with whom you take advice from. Those are the things that weigh you down energetically and block your blessings. Which of these lessons do you need to work on? Via: NatalieeNamaste

Trick Or Treat? It’s Your Choice

Sometimes being the “bigger” person enables evil people. Treat them how they treat you, if they don’t like it point out the ways you’re mirroring their behavior.

I don’t bother people unless they come for me, after that you get up to three fucking strikes before I k.o your ass, no mercy. Why should good people tolerate the malicious behavior of the depraved, it teaches them there are no consequences for their actions and that’s simply not true. It also makes you complicit. Put them in their place, you deserve better. Artist: PhaedraPeer

You’re Still A Good Person

There’s a time and a place, being kind all the time is why they mistake it for weakness. Set boundaries. Some people need to be told off, otherwise you’re enabling bad behavior. Via: Vintage.Art.Witch

How Toxic People Feel Power

Being toxic is a choice. Toxic people more often than not know what they’re doing and have no plans of changing. Unless they have a personality disorder, they know and enjoy testing other’s boundaries. It’s a game to them, your time, your mental health, it makes them feel powerful. It’s up to you to draw the line, by growing a backbone. If someone isn’t respecting you, ditch them. I said it once I’ll say it again, people are blocks or blessings to your abundance. Choose you. Choose healthy relationships.
I dumped all the people that fit this description and the rewards of doing so are more than I could’ve dreamed. Trust me kick them out of your life. Are there people in your life testing what they can get away with. How do they make you feel? What are you gonna do about it? Via: The Female Warhol

Your Relationship With YOU

How you feel about yourself translates into all other relationships. You accept the love you think you deserve. What you feel deserving of comes from you. If you love yourself, you won’t settle, you’ll set up healthy boundaries others adhere to. If they don’t you’ll let them go. If you don’t love yourself, you’ll have toxic relationships. Even if someone loves you, you’ll find yourself unworthy and push that person away.
Evaluate how you feel about yourself, how it correlates to the bonds you have with others. Via: Doodle Gems

What Are You Celebrating?

The things I am grateful for this holiday season:

  • True Love: Following all the signs to false flame after false flame I almost gave up. True love is rare and something that should never be taken for granted, of course you couldn’t get there without the next item.
  • Self-Love: Not seeking validation that you’re worthy from somewhere else. You cannot find true love without it. This is a hard task, since you have to go through so much trauma acceptance and healing, but definitely worth it. In the end you will find happiness in each day. You accept that you are complete but still a work in progress and there is nothing wrong with that, you’re human, imperfect by definition.
  • Boundaries: I have some extremely toxic people in my family and I’ve had some in my social circle (which I will address in my next post), kicking them to the curb has only allowed for better things to come. I use to hold on for far too long, now I have no problem dropping people. People have no right to disrespect you and believe they are owed eternal chances. Smear your shit somewhere else.
  • God: Always. Blessings and miracles aplenty.
  • My Gifts: At first I found it a burden, mostly because I didn’t understand it. Now seeing how many people I am able to help and energy I’m able to balance I feel fortunate that god would use bestow such a blessing on me. What are five things you are grateful for and why?

Via: Melanin Me Podcast