Types Of Betrayals You Shouldn’t Forgive

Not everyone deserves forgiveness. Another distortion by the Devil who verbatim told me I had to forgive his abuse, upcoming article. After doing the most heinous things to me and others. Sorry not sorry, you won’t get away with harming children, murder and sexually assaulting or eating infants. The fuck. Justice wouldn’t exist nor hell if this was a one size fits all rule. Abusers know wtf they’re doing, know your worth. You don’t deserve to be mistreated then burdened by being the bigger person. God didn’t tell Archangel Michael to forgive Satan, he said tko him. Never forget that. Forgiving the wrong people makes you complicit with and enables evil. Via: Your_Mental_Healness

Choke On Your Hatred

I don’t know why people think they can be vitriolic towards others sans consequences. Karma always comes, and I’m not the one. I give everyone the same energy they give me, if you don’t like how I’m treating you check your behavior. I certainly don’t go around being mean to people for no reason. Treat others how you want to be treated is my motto, until they’ve been insolent. Sorry not sorry, I’m not going to tolerated it. I don’t give a fuck who you are, or what disorders you have. Stop enabling evil people, put them in their place. Via: FabFeministArt

Friendship Health Chart

The company you keep is incredibly important, make sure you’re with the right people. They can be blocks or blessings. It’s better to be alone than amongst frenemies. If you’re having trouble discerning where people fall in your life, here’s a chart. Give your energy and time to healthy relationships only, life is too short for toxicity. Via: Janeel.Monae

Karma Said: Save Yourself

Learn the lesson and move the fuck on. Don’t confuse abuse with love no matter who it comes from: friends, family, lovers. Don’t repaint people. When they show you who they are believe them, not the potential you see. Save yourself, let them go. Via: Law Of Healing

Don’t Lose Yourself For Someone Else

If someone wants you to sacrifice all that you are, no compromises on their end, to be with them, it’s not love. It’s abuse, that person is an abuser. They’ve dehumanized you into an object they can own. My ex-fiancé use to ask me if I’m willing to make the sacrifices necessary to be with him. The answer was and is no. He’s a disgusting vile person, who doesn’t value human life, be it child or otherwise. The relationship didn’t work, because I had to lose myself to be with someone who isn’t worth two stones rubbed together. If your partner doesn’t think you matter, they aren’t the one. Via: UbetterChooseYourself

Have You Ever Loved Yourself?

Realizing I was going from relationship to relationship, couldn’t spend a second by myself, always out with other people, always on the phone, I made a change. Instead of loving myself, I sought external validation to fill the void. That emptiness never stayed away long, and as grueling a task learning to love you is, I was determined to be a self-actualized person. Accepting the good, the bad, because being human is to be flawed. I can truly say, proudly today, I love myself. I deserve better. I enjoy my own company. I’m fulfilled. How about you? You can’t fill someone else’s cup, when yours is empty. Via: Band Aid For Heart

We Weren’t Meant To Be

Life is too, too short to waste time in relationships that aren’t working. In retrospect, I’m incredibly proud of how mature I’ve become. Learning from my mistakes by identifying toxic patterns I need to break. In the past I’ve wasted years on toxic love, waiting around for it, or martyring myself for something that isn’t working. As arduous as it’s been getting away from my abusive ex, my choosing to walk away after one too many red flags shows my growth. I’ve done the inner work. I love myself. Preferring to be alone, than with the wrong person. I knew this baggage wasn’t worth it.

Once I shifted perspectives pertaining to my love life, viewing it as a fairytale not a myth, I knew who my twin flame was.
All the parts about the Princess being saved by true love’s kiss, or whatever their true love does to abscond them from oppression. The only person who can set them free, into a happily ever after. Loving yourself enough to walk away, is the catalyst for receiving what you deserve. In doing so you’re telling the universe “I’m worthy of more,” and something better is delivered. Co-creation. Do yourself a favor, ditch the zero and get with a hero. Via: Sabrina Gazali

Fortunate Enough To Love Yourself

Someone, somewhere needed to see this after a long ass day, week, month, year, decade…whatever it is. This message isn’t for everybody, only the sexy people. If you’re fortunate to be these things count your blessings. And most of all love yourself, know your value and ditch anyone who brings you down, disrespects, or abuses you. You welcome. Artist: Le Revel London