If someone wants you to sacrifice all that you are, no compromises on their end, to be with them, it’s not love. It’s abuse, that person is an abuser. They’ve dehumanized you into an object they can own. My ex-fiancé use to ask me if I’m willing to make the sacrifices necessary to be with him. The answer was and is no. He’s a disgusting vile person, who doesn’t value human life, be it child or otherwise. The relationship didn’t work, because I had to lose myself to be with someone who isn’t worth two stones rubbed together. If your partner doesn’t think you matter, they aren’t the one. Via: UbetterChooseYourself
