You Are Here Alive

Life is short, make sure you value the things that matter.
Money is a social construct that only has meaning due to people, because people matter.

Love transcends death, money doesn’t.
Treat people how YOU want to be treated. Then treat them how they treat you.

In our one experience incarnated as these unique beings, everyone deserves happiness and to live the way they see fit (as long as you aren’t hurting anybody).

Making others objects of your desire as their sole purpose, disrespecting their boundaries, spreading greed, misery, as opposed to kindness, to gain power is a shit way to be. Your cruelty will come back to you times three.


**Are you callous when watching injustice, or human suffering? Why? How, how do you live with yourself?

Poet: The Melody H

Cool To Be Kind

Being a mean, nasty, hateful person, means you’re low class no matter how much money you have. Class is refinement, a mindset, the way you carry yourself, the way you behave. Show others the same respect you’d like to receive, like a got damn human. The parents of these garbage people should be mortified. You raised that? Embarrassing.
It’s cool to be kind (unless you have to stand up for yourself). If you don’t stay humble the universe will do it for you. Where do you fall (be honest), could you be a better person? Do you treat others how you want to be treated? Via: Classy Quotes Page

Still Tell People Off

Just a reminder in case people thought I switched up. Don’t start no shit, won’t be no shit, but if you should feel so inclined to start I assure you it’ll be one of your biggest regrets. Being nice doesn’t mean push me over. IDC who you are, where you’re from, what you did, I’ll give you back the same energy. Do you allow people to disrespect you to maintain a kind persona? How’s that working out for you?

How Do You Make Others Feel?

All the cool kids are doing it. Stop treating people like shit and valuing things. That is all. Do you treat people with as much kindness, understanding and compassion as you could? Via: 8.46am

Honey Honey

My ex boyfriend taught me the true meaning of the phrase, you catch more flies with honey. A lesson he learned from his father, a successful businessman. He was the first person to do frozen at sea salmon, selling his technique to the Japanese.

In the four years of our relationship, I watched him negotiate with people over things that weren’t bargain items. He never failed to get a discount. I also watched my mom talk many taxi drivers, newsstand men, restaurants…into giving her free everything. Simply due to kindness, the way you speak to people, the way you make them feel. Next time you’re irritated don’t bitch the person out, just try to understand them, treat them like the human they are and it will work wonders. A thank you so much, in a tone of genuine appreciation can go a long way.

Try it. You’d be surprised. This is why people are loyal to me, because I care, I treat them with kindness, compassion and love. It seems small, but it moves mountains. Could you be more kind in your day to day life, especially when you’re upset? Via: Sigh Humans

A Rule Of Thumb

Always remember to be kind, especially when you’re in a position of power. There is absolutely no reason to treat other people poorly, just because you can. As a society we get so competitive with one another, when the only person you need to compete with is yourself. We are all unique individuals, snowflakes, fingerprints, the ever changing moment, we all serve our purpose. There is enough room for everyone.

My first happy hour as a creative director went astoundingly well, especially for being last minute. I pulled everything together in less than 24 hours. This was my third day on the job. Easily I could have been big-headed, talked smack to anyone whose ever wronged me, and displayed a multitude of unmannerly behavior. But that’s not my vibe. As previous posts stated, I’ve felt states of depression, I’ve gone through traumatic events, I would never want to make anyone feel low. No matter what happens in life, my rule of thumb is “always treat people how you want to be treated.” Something my mother told me.

People who bring down others are miserable and insecure. Happy hoes ain’t hating, hating hoes ain’t happy. Be honest with yourself, have you been discourteous to others? Are you a happy hoe or a hating hoe? Why? Photo: Girlboss