ADULTHOOD IS A S#!%SHOW
Stop settling for abusive, toxic relationships, mistaking it for love. Also dig deeper, why are you tolerating this behavior? Where does it stem from? Salt isn’t sugar. Reflect, apply the lesson, evolve. Via: MagicalLine
Make no mistake, you are the company you keep. The people in your social circle reveals your character. Humans are tribal. This trait is how Homo sapiens dominated the other homo species, like Neanderthals. Terminating their existence with our superior social skills and team work.
Review yourself objectively solely by looking at your clique. What do you deem acceptable? What do you have in common? What do you tolerate? What do they contribute to your life? Is that contribution a blessing or a block? Are you happy? Via: Gary Owens
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This Selena photoshoot epitomizes my duality. How you step to me, is how I’m going to respond to you. At first I was compassionate, kind, giving grace- Pavarti. A demure girl. Until my kindness was taken for weakness. The insolence transforming me into my take no prisoners, pull-up and get fucked up variation- Kali Ma…bitch.
There’s a time and a place, act accordingly. When someone tries you, set boundaries by standing up for yourself. People treat you the way you allow them to. Don’t cower, be assertive. Otherwise you’re enabling depravity. How will they learn if you let everything go? Sometimes you’re the lesson for someone else. Which one of my forms do you need to embody today & why? Photographer: John Dyer
The company you keep is incredibly important, make sure you’re with the right people. They can be blocks or blessings. It’s better to be alone than amongst frenemies. If you’re having trouble discerning where people fall in your life, here’s a chart. Give your energy and time to healthy relationships only, life is too short for toxicity. Via: Janeel.Monae
Unfortunately there is no cure for narcissism, the only treatment is extensive and consistent therapy. Something that can only happen if the narcissist is willing to see their faults and seek help, an unlikely scenario. Otherwise don’t waste your time, they know exactly what they’re doing. This is a vicious personality disorder, the demon attached to it is Leviathan, filling them with pride and darkness.
A narcissist ALWAYS needs a scapegoat to project on. They will always find a replacement, needing a supply, while putting on a facade to everyone else of being a good person. One of the best things you can do is document everything, otherwise you’re allowing them and the people they control to narrate your story. I don’t play that shit, mama always has receipts. You’re not crazy, they are. Via: Say_No_To_Narcissistic_Parents
Normalize cutting the head off snakes, no matter how long it takes to complete the mission. I’ve axed friends, family, co-workers, exes, anyone who has consistently exhibited betrayal as a trait. Ten years ago it would’ve taken longer. My self-worth increased the more I healed and so did my rapid reactions. Bitch bye.
I’ve been backstabbed by all the aforementioned groups. My husband has never been disloyal in life or death, dying to protect me (in turning saving the world) and niggas can’t even do the bare minimum. The same people who I’ve helped and wouldn’t be here without me. No one comes before my baby. Do yourself a favor, trash Judas. There are billions of people in this world, make the upgrade. Via: Love.Quotes
Once upon a time I was a person who believed closure consist of a final conversation, accountability, apologies. Leaving me in a karmic loop regarding relationships that I perceived as open ended, due to the inaccurate definition I held. What I learned is closure comes in different forms, the disrespect was the finale. Expecting maturity from people who don’t possess the necessary skills, is a waste of time and how the relationship deteriorated to begin with. Oftentimes there’s nothing left to discuss, remove them and move on. Via: SelfLoveHannah
Updated: 9/27/2025 1:14am
Such is the importance of meditation, quieting the mind to connect with your soul. The mind is wrapped up in ego, a survival mechanism to protect. When you learn to control it, instead of letting it control you, clarity is found. By connecting to essence, because you’re a soul having a human experience. Mediation isn’t an easy task to master, like anything else it takes practice.
Imagine someone talking at you and never listening. How would that make you feel? Very one sided, toxic, draining. That’s what you’re doing when you only pray to God.
Praying is speaking to the Almighty.
Meditation is listening to the Almighty, this is how you co-create. Stop making blanket statements about things you think (keyword) you understand. This civilization has lost touch with spirituality, that’s why the Divines have incarnated again and again. Follow less, critically think more, find silence. Via: BrainsByBay
You’re worth more than being an afterthought. Doesn’t matter if it’s a friendship, romantic partnership or family, don’t allow anyone to serve you scraps in a relationship. Who the fuck are they to deny you the whole loaf? Toss that person in the trash. They’re moldy bread, unhealthy, it’ll make you sick. Via: JustGirlProject