The Healthy Part Of Negative Relationships

“Negative relationships are unpleasant, but they’re predictable: if a colleague undermines you, you can keep your distance and expect the worst. But when you’re dealing with an ambivalent relationship, you’re constantly on guard, grappling with questions about when that person can actually be trusted. As Duffy’s team explains, ‘It takes more emotional energy and coping resources to deal with individuals who are inconsistent.”
In a series of groundbreaking studies, psychologists Bert Uchino found that ambivalent relationships are literally unhealthier than negative relationships. In one study, having more ambivalent relationships predicted higher rates of stress, depression, and dissatisfaction with life.

-Originals: How Non-Conformists Change The World

Via: NetAPorter

Speaking While Female Study Results

“But when I looked at the evidence, I was dismayed to discover that even today, speaking while female remains notoriously difficult. Across cultures, there’s a rich body of evidence showing that people continue to hold strong gender-role stereotypes, expecting men to be assertive and women to be communal. When women speak up, they run the risk of violating the gender stereotype, which leads audiences to judge them as aggressive.

Other studies show that male executives who talk more than their peers are rewarded, but female executives who engage in the same behavior are devalued by both men and women. Similarly, when women offer suggestions for improvement, managers judge them as less loyal than men and are less likely to implement their proposals. Especially in male-dominated organizations, women pay a price for exercising voice.”

-Originals: How Non-Conformists Change The World

Via: Interview Magazine