Don’t let them do you dirty. This was all my ex ever did to me, pretend to change and manipulate. Learn self-love. Respect yourself enough to walk away. You’re worth more, you can do better. Via: 80sVintageComics
PSA: Manipulation Isn’t Change
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Don’t Waste Your Time On Shitty People
Respect yourself enough to ditch people that don’t do it for you. Otherwise you’re wasting time you’ll literally never get back. You only live once as this person, tomorrow isn’t promised. Use this finite time to create the life you want. Who are you tolerating and need to dump? Via: Sick_Feelingz
Choose People Who…
Actually care about you and know the meaning of friendship, family. Not low vibrational people wishing ill upon you, who don’t want you to evolve into your best self.
Choose people who are honest, not duplicitous, who root for you behind your back, tell you what you need to hear even if you don’t want to hear it, because it’ll make you a better person. If someone’s toxic, evil, act accordingly, even if they’re blood relatives.
With each interaction we’re exchanging energy with others, it’s everything. Choose people carefully, because they can block your blessings, set you up to fail, and keep you stagnant. Artist: TheMayfairGroup
Don’t Message Your Ex!
Listen I don’t know who needs to see this right now, but here. It’s the weekend and about that time where mess starts. Next thing you know you’re wasted, suddenly messaging that toxic person seems like a marvelous idea. It’s not. Don’t do it. Respect yourself until it’s a habit. Via: Thorns Poetry
Karma Said: Save Yourself
Learn the lesson and move the fuck on. Don’t confuse abuse with love no matter who it comes from: friends, family, lovers. Don’t repaint people. When they show you who they are believe them, not the potential you see. Save yourself, let them go. Via: Law Of Healing
Self-Care Tip: Check Bitches
…Because you’re wearing it.
Once Law Roach told that OMG Fashun! contestant they looked like “a lady of the night going to coronation,” I knew he too learned from mother. Not all mothers are good to their children, but they’ve raised you and it shows. Despite constantly aiding in defaming me, I wouldn’t be nearly as good at dragging people without Naomi Campbell, she raised generations.
You bitches didn’t check your lipstick before coming for me. Sometimes self-care is setting boundaries by giving the same energy you receive. Stop prioritizing yourself last; letting people live in delusion and shitty behavior at your expense means you need to learn self-love. Takers take, how else will they learn if you continuously enable them? Personally, I’ve learned to do a 3 strike max. Who do you need to put in their place? Via: Literally.Iconic
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Ask Yourself Is It Love?
Please don’t confuse the drama and inconsistency with love. You’re wasting precious time you’ll never get back. Don’t let someone diminish your self-worth by playing you. When in doubt think of Jerry Hall ruining the right relationship, for this very thing (read Rupert Murdoch Replaces Jerry Hall). A mess. It’s not love, this is the definition of being breadcrumbed by a toxic person. Via: U Better Choose Yourself
Don’t Lose Yourself For Someone Else
If someone wants you to sacrifice all that you are, no compromises on their end, to be with them, it’s not love. It’s abuse, that person is an abuser. They’ve dehumanized you into an object they can own. My ex-fiancé use to ask me if I’m willing to make the sacrifices necessary to be with him. The answer was and is no. He’s a disgusting vile person, who doesn’t value human life, be it child or otherwise. The relationship didn’t work, because I had to lose myself to be with someone who isn’t worth two stones rubbed together. If your partner doesn’t think you matter, they aren’t the one. Via: UbetterChooseYourself
Love Them And Let Them Go
More people need to understand this, you can wish others well and let them go their own way. If someone wants to be in your life after hurting you, they need to prove themselves worthy. Life is far too short to spend with people who are toxic, trust me you’ll be better off. Love yourself enough to chuck the deuce when someone isn’t respecting you. Via: Seconds Apart
Has Your Relationship Soured?
If you’re experiencing signs of a toxic relationship LEAVE. Easier said than done, but you deserve better. Your partner is suppose to be just that, not your enemy. They’re suppose to enhance your life, not drain you. They’re suppose to be a cheerleader, not demeaning and condescending. Has your relationship taken a turn for the worst? Via: Ember Relationship Psychology