Preventing Sexual Assault: Do’s & Don’ts

Victims aren’t the problem, those who assault and enable assaulters are. Taking advantage of someone, doing things without consent is never acceptable. It doesn’t matter if the person is wearing a shirt with a derogatory term, i.e SLUT. If they say no, it means no. If you weren’t given permission it means no. If they say no after the action is going, it means STOP. If they’re drunk and you’re sober, knowing they’d never touch you otherwise, it means no. Ahem, Meghan Straw, if I see you before hell you’re getting faded. Period. Not playing with you or your shitty friends. Men get sexually assaulted too. Artist: Natalie Byrne

Recognizing Spiked Drinks

Always be aware of your surroundings when going out. Here are some tips to stay safe and prevent someone from spiking your drink. A lot of these drugs are undetectable by taste. Note, chugging your drink isn’t always a bad thing.

Please be a good samaritan by calling out creeps and protecting others, even if they’re strangers. Also don’t be like Meghan Straw, stone cold sober, waiting for someone to get wasted so she can take advantage of them, while pretending she’s going to get them home. It takes a special type of bitch to take advantage of man, an ugly, desperate one. Look out for others, the way you’d like them to look for you. Via: AggieChicks

A Rape Prevention Guide

Rape is never the victims fault. The blame lies in the rapist and the systems and people that enable them. Men aren’t exempt from being assaulted, for Megan and that tattered group please see picture seven. Creeping closer to someone while you’re stone cold sober, watching them get inebriated to the point of being incapacitated, then swooping in to “hook-up” under the guise of helping them is assault. Megan knew he wasn’t attracted to her, or she’d have gone up to the Lewis when he wasn’t heavily under the influence. She also knew the effects of drugs and alcohol, so she never did them. No matter the gender of the victims and perpetrators, rape is never acceptable. Call them out. Via: WhyIKeptQuiet

Different Ways To Protect Your Energy

Energy is everything, understanding this universal fact changed my life. You can’t just know, you’ve gotta apply that knowing with action. Even though I’m a Goddess, trusting low vibrational people allowed their ill intentions to manifest in my life. Giving people access to me, gave them power over me. At the end of the day, you’re your own gatekeeper. If you live in a fully secured mansion, but let a thief in, they’re going to rob you. They can’t get in unless you give them access, via security codes and opening gates. That’s my point.

Here’s another example, women who are sexually assaulted in their own buildings by strangers. Although they’ve never seen this man a day in their life, especially as a neighbor, they don’t want to offend by being accusatory. Choosing to be polite, the good girl, they trust them, letting them inside. Only to be violated. Whereas women who scream and make a scene scare the predator off. I’ve literally used this method, a man was following me home. I crossed the street, he crossed the street. I crossed back, he crossed back, for blocks. I started running, screaming, and he dipped. They’re looking for an easy target, don’t make it easy. That’s when I was in my early twenties, I was coming home super late on empty streets that night. My vibration was low, so I attracted danger. Trust me when I say people can read your vibe and respond to it. That doesn’t happen to me now, at all. Protecting your energy is crucial, here are some ways to do so if you’re having trouble getting started. Do yourself this favor, note the changes that come with it. Via: Soulful Empress Tarot