Yo I use to get so vexed when things didn’t go according to plan, especially when I planned accordingly. It took ages, ages for me to accept some things are out of my hands, if things go as expected that’s a blessing. A great example of this is the NYC subway, I’ve literally left early and still got to work late. Just because you’re responsible doesn’t mean someone isn’t going to get stabbed, a track won’t derail a train, or your train changes routes, skips your stop. Getting angry, worrying, all of it is pointless, it won’t change anything. Learn to focus on what you can control for a better life. Screenshot this if you need a daily reminder, adjust your attitude until it’s who you are. Via: Brighter Days Wellness