Being kind is great, except when it becomes martyrdom in the name of toxic positivity. I’ve finally learned my lesson in self sacrificing for love. Setting up healthy boundaries is difficult, for those who have blurred lines on what that looks like, here’s a chart. You can’t help someone else if you don’t fill your own cup. You can’t fill your own cup if you’re not prioritizing yourself. If it means losing something in a detrimental way, don’t do it. Ask yourself, are you really kind or just people pleasing (huge turn off for me, I find it spineless)? Why, can you find the root of this behavior? Via: Intuitive Annies Tarot
