My Favorite Korean Meals

When I first started at Gammeeok I didn’t think I’d make it. Although I grew up with the different ethnic groups that make up the Asian community, I had little to no experience with Korean food. Thai food, Filipino food, Japanese food, Vietnamese food, Chinese food, I’m well versed in those cuisines. It wasn’t until I trained, which was really just throwing me on the floor during busy season, that I realized I’d never eaten Korean food before (beyond kimchi and barbecue)! Reflecting back, I only truly knew two Korean people- one half British, the other a co-worker adopted by white parents.
K-Town was for karaoke (which we didn’t do often) and that rooftop bar, with the sweet ass happy hour deals. Meaning I wasn’t immersed in the culture the way my peers pulled me into theirs, but I love learning, I love experiencing other customs. Life would truly be a dull, gray, rainbow without the spectrum of heritages across the human race.

In the beginning I literally couldn’t take an order without guests pointing at the menu. I didn’t understand a lick of what anybody was saying. The words were foreign, because it was a foreign language. I didn’t speak Korean, nor did I know the side condiments that went with each dish. There was no formal training, or structure, I learned on the fly, studying the menu on my first solo shift. Not a soul came in that Monday, thank the Almighty God. I spent every second studying what comes with each meal. Next shift I had it memorized.
In honor of President Yoon Suk Yeol’s recent visit to the States, as well as Asian American Pacific Islander Month, here are my faves:

Jokbal (photo one)- this is my favorite dish of all, pig trotters. Be it spicy or regular, you can’t go wrong. The shrimp sauce and bean paste you dip the regular jokbal in is sooooooo good, albeit salty (love salt, so it’s right up my alley). It’s just perfectly textured, perfectly savory.
Seolleong Tang (photo two)– my favorite soup, at one point I ate it everyday for two weeks straight. Deadass. It’s sliced brisket, noodles and rice in an ox bone broth. It’s served with scallions, salt and pepper. I do my own thing by dipping the brisket in soy sauce. For some reason this is the best soup to eat alongside kimichi. People often put the jus from kimchi directly in their soup to spice it up. Please note this soup is served sans seasoning, you have to flavor it to your liking. It gets a bad wrap due to folks not salting it themselves, which is incredibly frustrating cause it’s so damn good. It’s now a comfort food for me. Also I think it gives you an energy boost. I’m wide awake after eating seolleong tang, it’s wild.
Japchae (photo three)- stir fried glass noodles mixed with vegetables and typically beef, so fucking gooooooodddddddd. Pretty self explanatory.
Pajeon- aka seafood pancake, assorted seafood and peppers mixed with flour, dipped into a pepper soy sauce. Fun fact, tastes excellent with cheese on top.
Dolsot Bibimbap- a sizzling, hot, bowl of rice and vegetables served with beef, an egg and gochujang sauce. I eat mine with added cheese, for a burst of flavor.
Sogogi Gukbap- I love the galbi tang, love the samgye tang, but I love love the sogogi gukbap. A spicy ox bone broth soup, with cubes of beef and vegetables. So fucking good.
Kimchi- fermented cabbage is a staple in any Korean meal. Fun fact, kimichi is not only a probiotic, but good for anti-aging. The only downside, high sodium levels. As my palette evolves, I’ve found I prefer the kkakdugi, like most older people. It’s like when you like sweet wine as a youth, then realize dry is king.

Beyond the food, what I learned working at my first Korean restaurant is humanity, that language is learned, even Koreans had to learn it. Sounds simple, but it’s easy to forget when you’re not pushed out of your comfort zone. Now I have no problem understanding my guests, because practice makes perfect, no matter who you are. Being able to master the menu gave me confidence, now I can’t fathom that abai sundae was gibberish to me. Cause guess what guys? Race is a social construct. We’re all one race, human, with different ethnic groups, whose appearances formed based on our environment. Just like the beaks of Charles Darwin’s finches. Wild right? Via: Eater (Wonho Frank Lee), Cook With Dana & Cookerru



This Is America Gothic

It’s not the strongest of the species that survives,
nor the most intelligent that survives.
It is the one that is most adaptable to change.

Artist: Grant Wood, Gordan Parks, Criselda Vasquez & Lehi Thundervoice

Take Precaution With Your Energy

Energy is everything, if you’re stupid enough to give it to the wrong people, after all you’ve seen you deserve what you get. I do despise stupidity, ignorance, arrogance, if you can’t pay attention it’s your life, your kids, your significant other, your career, your fate that’s affected and in your hands. But really mine. I assure you I don’t feel bad.
FYI part of me not liking stupid people is thanks to my high school, talking to an expired friend we realized the stupid people were looked down upon. One person got kicked out for it. It’s like Darwinism isn’t it though? Only the strong i.e intelligent survive. I digress. Careful with your energy and if certain people are truly your friends, why do they put you in distressing positions? What types of nouns (people, places and things) do you need to rethink pouring energy into? Via: Selenite.Soul8

Gung Hay Fat Choy

Happy Chinese New Year! 2021 is the year of the Ox. Thanks to Donald Trump deeming Covid “China Disease” there’s been an influx of hate crimes against Asian people with little major media coverage. This is not okay. People who support Trump don’t seem to comprehend that it’s not a matter of politics, you are siding with hate and division as he’s attacked EVERY person of color during his presidency.

Racism is for unintelligent, garbage people and I will not stand for it. STOP ATTACKING ASIAN PEOPLE. This disease doesn’t discriminate, we are all human. Everything happens for a reason, this pandemic is showing us how interconnected our species is, we literally have to social distance in order to stop the spread. The universe sent it for this exact understanding, that if we don’t work together we all suffer. We are one race homosapien, there were other species of humans but we cancelled them by depleting their resources with our ability to work as a team. PERIOD. Get it into your thick skull that everyone originated from Africa, everyone was black. We started to evolve due to environmental needs accounting for our differences in appearance as our species spread throughout the planet. Think Charles Darwin Galapagos Island. As people we should feel blessed and fortunate to be diverse, it adds depth and meaning, it keeps us reproducing healthy offspring. Homogeny is never the key. STOP THE HATE. Via: 31 Phillip Lim
Peep the link for more information on the Chinese New Year 2021: https://chinesenewyear.net/zodiac/ox/