“Kin” By Tayari Jones

Two motherless girls become cradle friends in Jim Crow’s Louisiana. Chapters switch between the perspectives of Vernice and Annie Kay as they grow up in their small town, eventually taking different life paths. Their relationship is a red thread, tangled & twisted, but never broken. The two keep correspondence through letters. Started by Annie Kay who ran away from her grandmother’s home in search of her mama, Hattie Lee. Vernice doesn’t have that option. Her mother Arletha was murdered by her father. Leaving her in the care of her maternal aunt, who sends her to Spelman College for a better life. While there she climbs up the social latter, after choosing between two affluent lovers.

For me, this book supersedes “An American Marriage.” By far. It has levity, plot twists, dynamic, multifaceted characters. Themes range from: family, religion, sexuality, racism, classism and gender. Oscillating between heartwarming and heartwrenching, I couldn’t put it down. The characters are memorable and complex, a masterpiece.

Spoiler Alert:

Joette is a bitch. Vernice made the right choice choosing Franklin. For her to force someone out the closet, in their time of distress no less, is incredibly cruel. Joette claims to be so different, sexuality aside, she’s everything she hates. A spoiled brat. Joette had no business divulging their affair to Annie Kay either. Speaking of which I will never forgive the author, Annie Kay deserved so much better. I’m still not over it. I wish she focused more on what she had: Babydoll, Vernice, Bobo and her grandmother, instead of chasing Hattie. Vernice ignoring her mother in law, staying true to her lifelong friend, she’s a real one. That’s what being kin is. Blood ties aren’t everything, sometimes they’re nothing at all. Via: Reparations Club

Blessings By Chukwuebuka Ibeh

Bad at soccer, but always the best dancer at parties, Obiefuna goes from a baby bringing blessings to disgracing his father. After catching his son in a comprising situation with his apprentice, Obiefuna’s father seeks to end to his homosexuality by sending him to a militant all boys school (I know right). Never telling his mother, who loves him unconditionally, why, and prohibiting them from spending time together.

Nigeria is still a place of gender roles and religious fervor, regarding same sex marriage as a sin and openly punishing those who participate. The reader watches as Obiefuna transforms from a boy with shaky confidence, to a man. While the country he’s in goes from shaming to murdering the LGBT community. Giving readers insight on coming of age as a queer person when your liberty and life are at stake. Is being true to yourself worth the risk? Loved this book. Via: Amazon

De-Conditioning: Read Books Of Different Cultures

Harping once more that reading from other perspectives is critical. This is what makes you educated, worldly and cultured. Our ancestors risked their lives to learn for a reason, knowledge is power. All these people travel the world and couldn’t perspective shift to save their life, because they roam through self-absorption. They learn more about their hotel accommodations and tourist itineraries, completely missing the sociological value. Other people matter, their voices are important, they aren’t just your instagram photo backdrop. Why are you so self-involved?

Notable mentions to: Kindred by Octavia Butler, The Darkest Child by Dolores Phillips (needs a movie adaptation it’s so good) and The Underground Railroad by Colson Whitehead. Reading is to the mind, what exercise is to the body; learn about cultural experiences beyond yours.

Korean Read: https://sainttwenty.com/2019/09/10/min-jin-lee-pachinko/ Pachinko, Min Jin Lee

Native American Read: https://sainttwenty.com/2019/10/16/there-there/ There, There, Tommy Orange

Filipino Read: https://sainttwenty.com/2020/02/29/8114/ Dear America Notes Of An Undocumented Citizen, Jose Vargas

Jewish Read: https://sainttwenty.com/2019/09/18/the-strength-of-love/ Tattooist Of Auschwitz, Heather Morris

What other book’s should be added to this list? When’s the last time you read a book from a different ethnic group? Photos: Jobis89, Nicole Richie and Teen Vogue