PSA: A Time And A Place With Selena

This Selena photoshoot epitomizes my duality. How you step to me, is how I’m going to respond to you. At first I was compassionate, kind, giving grace- Pavarti. A demure girl. Until my kindness was taken for weakness. The insolence transforming me into my take no prisoners, pull-up and get fucked up variation- Kali Ma…bitch.

There’s a time and a place, act accordingly. When someone tries you, set boundaries by standing up for yourself. People treat you the way you allow them to. Don’t cower, be assertive. Otherwise you’re enabling depravity. How will they learn if you let everything go? Sometimes you’re the lesson for someone else. Which one of my forms do you need to embody today & why? Photographer: John Dyer

Happy Birthday Selena

When Scar let’s his brother Mufasa fall on his own volition, that was the first time I recognized sorrow and understood death. The first time I experienced the desire for vengeance was in your honor, most of my friends had that moment. “It’s over for Yolanda forever and the actress who plays her.” In your short time here you gave us signature fits, a new sound, quality work, a banging 90’s babe for inspiration and a love for you that made us want to behead that monster, anything for Selena’s. An icon. What’s your favorite Selena song? Via: John Dyer