In chronological order these are the faces of dickmatism. I too have been dickmatised, I’m talking caught him cheating point blank and lied to myself. The world is a difficult place, adding ambition to that equation compounds the issue, making great peen the best stress reliever. Suddenly all your worries are out the window, but at what cost? Your dignity, self-respect, family, friends…is it worth it? If the carrier isn’t a toxic nigga, yes.
After Alexis Bellino returned to RHOC, popping off from her first scene, then attacking one Shannon Beador, I knew, knew, John Janssen possess a magic stick. Otherwise Alexis would not be fiercely protective of Johnny J. Granted, after her misogynistic ex-husband she deserves this. I remember rewatching an episode where Alexis wanted to start a career and he shut her down. Juxtaposed by Terry Dubrow supporting Heather Dubrow in that same 40 minutes. My heart broke for Alexis as she was pigeonholed into being solely a housewife & mother, having nothing for herself.
Vicki Gunvalson almost lost everything dear to her because of Brooks. Once she turned on her kids I knew she was in deep, sis was sick. I say this all to say, dickmatism needs to be regarded as a serious illness. If I didn’t stop having sex with my toxic ex I would’ve never escaped, I promise you. I’m talking full on inappropriate conversations with other women, classified ads for booty calls via Craigslist, arguing with my friends and family due to his disrespect, crying myself to sleep. Dickmatism is real. It can literally destroy your life. Where’s the lie? Via: E!News, Us Weekly & The Blast
