Make sure you’re with your significant other for the right reasons. Ask yourself these questions before wasting anymore time, yours or theirs. If the latter to each section is what’s popping, it’s time for a change. Go deeper, what void are you trying fill with unrequited love? Via: Positively Present
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Weekend Activities: Introvert Or Extrovert?
However you spend your weekend, make sure you do something you enjoy, something for you. Depending on my mood and the moments events I can be either an introvert, or extrovert. I’ve found myself enjoying the former the older I get. Which activities suit your weekend vibe? How you gonna treat yourself? Artist: Positively Present
An Unknown Ending
Stop counting yourself out. Be open to an ending different than you expect, the only constant here is change. Have you resigned to life, under the belief that this is it? Why tho? Via: Positively Present
Throw Away Expectations
Yes 2020 has started off bizarre and out of mortal command with the majority of the world forced indoors. It’s been distressing for everyone, especially those who aren’t receiving any sort of income, have no food and a multitude of other issues that have plagued many during this pandemic. Everyone is dealt a different hand during this crisis, which is something to be mindful of when negativity seeps in. Personally this has been a rewarding experience for me, probably because I’m use to riding the sometimes tumultuous waves of life. Everything is probability, things go awry.
It’s easier said than done to remain positive in search of a silver lining.
As humans we need the sun for mental health purposes, we thrive when our skin is kissed by it’s rays. We also need each other, socializing is how we’ve survived, how we outwitted the other homo something’s that lived here once. So feeling out of sorts is natural and normal especially since the nicer months have come to pass. It feels like we went from winter to winter, but it’s important to remember that anything can happen. Just as quickly as this came out of nowhere, leave room for the opposite. That’s the biggest lesson that’s been reaffirmed throughout this experience for me. Expect nothing, but keep an open mind for anything. That can be exciting and nerve wracking, but the quote “we make plans and god laughs” didn’t come from the woodwork. We still have another 7 months for magic and miracles that might exceed what we previously believed possible. What are your expectations for the rest of this year? Now throw them out the window.
Where Energy Flows
After reading Jen Sincero’s ‘You Are A Badass…’ I came to this revelation about the types of people I attract.
A lot of past living situations, my roommates who started off normal turned out nuts. Psychopaths, narcissists, like actual textbook and not everyday adjectives. The universe manifest what you give attention to period. So all it picked up was my putting energy into what I didn’t want, therefore I kept bringing it to life. Once I started putting energy into what I want, rather than what I don’t want, the latter disappeared.
Be very mindful of your thoughts, they are what shape your reality and create the world around you. Do you tend to focus on what you want, or what you don’t want? Do you see the correlation in your life (home, work, finances, relationships…)?
The beginning of the week is a chance to start fresh. Be grateful for the little things and keep growing.