I Don’t Need Everyone Liking Me

Cannot stand a people pleaser, have some dignity. I also have no problem being disliked, zero issues. I don’t do fake, there’s no confusion on whether I like you or not, no matter who you are. Being the villain towards evil people is my favorite and confrontation doesn’t faze me. I’m about that life, 100. Do you need everyone to like you? Why? Where does it stem from? Via: SuccessParty

Affirmations Keep Us Mindful

I am worthy of abundance and respect.

Self-affirmations may seem silly, on the contrary it’s rewiring your inner dialogue. Most times we speak to ourselves on autopilot and the conversations tend to be negative. Affirmations keep us mindful of this, it’s self-empowerment. Choose from the list or create one, repeating it to yourself daily for at least a week. Via: Divine.Kelcie

A Lesson On Prioritizing

Being a constant work in progress is a sign you’re evolving. Recently I had an epiphany that’s led to a take no prisoners attitude from here on out. It started with Gammeeok. I’d filed my lawsuit against them back I’m October 2024, but removed it at the advice of my lawyers.

Protecting people of color, I wanted to give them a chance to redeem themselves, after they tried to play me (which backfired), I realized wtf am I doing? Here I am sacrificing myself again for people who aren’t worthy, family included. If I weren’t so selfless, valuing their lives over money, I would’ve been good already. Lesson learned. I’m enabling people who are due to the Devil, that’s finished. Unlike these depraved idiots, I know how dire the consequences of their actions are. At least I have peace of mind, I was merciful and they were undeserving. I come first. Period. I will not show compassion for people who’ve showed no penitence, that’s where I’ve gone wrong. Fates sealed. Enjoy only that time. Are you prioritizing yourself last? Why? Via: IntuitivelyBlessed

Mel Ribbons ‘Let Them Theory’

Let the haters and the idiots hate. All of the above statements happened to me: unfollowed, criticized, doubted, talked about and guess what? Not only were all those people WRONG, but most will suffer eternally for it. Learn from me, to believe in yourself. Those same idiots wouldn’t be here if I’d listened to their stupid, sheep opinions. They’d be dead or trafficked, sacrificed.

Bet on yourself. If there’s ever any doubt remember me, the woman who proved fairytales, Divines and magic are real, just like the ancestors told you. Every visionary follows this path, it’s necessary when changing and shaping the world. Don’t let myopic minded people deter you from greatness. Via: ShopGoldenGems

What Is Gaslighting?

For those who think they aren’t going to be held accountable, after being extremely toxic and complicit with evil. Sans apologies. Invalidating someone’s reality is another form of abuse. It’s dehumanizing and traumatic. This is unacceptable behavior. If someone is gaslighting you act accordingly, ditch them. Never look back. They know WTF they’re doing. Who needs to be removed? Via: BreakingUpWithToxic

Be True To Who You Are

Don’t dumb yourself down to connect.
Don’t make yourself small to fit in.
Don’t sell yourself short to make others comfortable.
Their insecurity is for them to figure out, it’s not your burden to bear. Being true to myself is the best thing I’ve ever done. Artist: HollyMurray_Doodles

PSA: Manipulation Isn’t Change

Don’t let them do you dirty. This was all my ex ever did to me, pretend to change and manipulate. Learn self-love. Respect yourself enough to walk away. You’re worth more, you can do better. Via: 80sVintageComics

Know Your Worth & Secure The Bag

A reminder to anyone letting negative, low vibrational, jealous, abusive or evil people devalue them. It’s cool to be kind, until people mistake it for weakness and try you. Then you gotta put them in their fucking place, otherwise you’re enabling poor behavior. Know your worth, add tax, secure the bag. What you allow tells others how to treat you. Via: ProfessionalGoddess

Self-Care Tip: Check Bitches

…Because you’re wearing it.

Once Law Roach told that OMG Fashun! contestant they looked like “a lady of the night going to coronation,” I knew he too learned from mother. Not all mothers are good to their children, but they’ve raised you and it shows. Despite constantly aiding in defaming me, I wouldn’t be nearly as good at dragging people without Naomi Campbell, she raised generations.

You bitches didn’t check your lipstick before coming for me. Sometimes self-care is setting boundaries by giving the same energy you receive. Stop prioritizing yourself last; letting people live in delusion and shitty behavior at your expense means you need to learn self-love. Takers take, how else will they learn if you continuously enable them? Personally, I’ve learned to do a 3 strike max. Who do you need to put in their place? Via: Literally.Iconic

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The Affirmation Sweet Spot

Show yourself some love by picking a self-concept affirmation. Resetting your mind to be positive is incredibly hard, but practice makes perfect, keep going. Eventually you’ll come to a place where you control your inner voice, filtering out what’s creating a negative reality from beneficial constructive criticism. Always excepting or preparing for the worst, manifests it. You have to find the sweet spot. That balance between being realistic and faith in what you want achieve. Choose the affirmation you need most. Via: Queen Manifests