
“There is more to life than just continuing to do what we know.
What got you here won’t get you there.”
Via: The_Place
ADULTHOOD IS A S#!%SHOW

Via: The_Place

A simple reminder to control your negative thinking. Oftentimes it’s our ego’s way of protecting us, by preparing us for the worst. An admirable effort, one that can easily become a habit and suddenly you’re manifesting everything you don’t want. Life isn’t all lemons love, it’s okay to expect the best too. Via: Self Care Express




Artist: The Kind Set


Blessing Taylor Swift has been a pure joy. A brave selfless queen, she’s a hero. There is no higher honor bestowed upon man than being favored by the GODS, especially the almighty. Unlike that satanic family, she’s a legitimate billionaire, earning every cent with her talent and intellect. Selena Gomez is lucky to have a friend like you. She’s the opposite of the Kardashian Jenner West coven, saving Selena (read Taylor Swift’s Soul Switch) instead of dragging people to hell. With friends like those who needs enemies? Via: ETalkCTV & Big Rep1985

Recognize toxic traits, be it from the people in your life, or yourself.
So many people gaslit me when I’m a literally a victim of domestic violence, racism and more and it’s not okay. Then you wonder why I’m apathetic to the destructive byproduct of my anger. The way black women are vilified, mistreated and invalidated isn’t okay. Everyone who did this, especially other black women, will pay. There’s a special place in hell for people like you. Own that you’re a toxic person, that’s why you’re in this mess. You’re a gross, vile, low-vibrational, evil and/or envious human being, who has contributed to and perpetuates all that is wrong with humanity. Period. Creating a false narrative about someone you’re jealous of, who you assumed things about, rather than asked. Showing your true shitty colors. Spend the same time you did bumping your gums to spread lies and hatred, to apologize and work on your nasty traits. Keep that same energy you had for me, when you look in the mirror and confront yourselves.
It’s amazing how little accountability people take, if you talked the talk, be adult enough to own your shit, especially when you’re wrong and apologize. Then go fix yourself, instead of focusing on somebody else. You’d be a lot further along, trust. That’s why I’m blessed and so highly favored I’m a Goddess, doling out your karma and fate. I don’t possess these traits, because I’m an introspective, self-aware person, aiming to be better than myself. Not better than my friends, not better than my family, not better than my co-workers, but myself. That’s the difference between us. When I see something terrible about myself I own it, work on breaking the pattern, no matter how hard. I don’t project my inner self-loathing, nor spread my crappy circumstances onto other people, to make myself feel better for five seconds. That’s how you grow into a healthy, mature, happy adult. Who feels good about who they are and loves themselves. You can’t say that, because happy hoes ain’t hating and hating hoes ain’t happy. Unless you have certain types of mental and/or personality disorders, there’s no excuse. Do you possess these toxic traits? What are you doing to fix it? Do you know someone who does? Are you being honest with them? Toxic people and behavior block your blessings. Via: Nedra Tawwab

As this point I’ve lived both paths. Working until burnout sans rest days always, always, led to a mental breakdown. Full on crying in the back staircase at Blue Smoke once a year, without fail. A co-worker named Julie told me taking care of myself meant rest days too. Otherwise this will keep happening, even the almighty GOD rested when creating the world. A biblical reference that stuck. I’m certainly not doing anything as epic as creating Earth.
From that day forward I started incorporating days of doing nothing. Changed my life for the better. Unplugging is how you keep things working, or fix them.
Being American, you’re programmed to be the consummate worker bee. COVID provided a shift, inclining people towards the European perspective of life. That work to live, not live to work vibe. Life is too short not to live for yourself, don’t work yourself to an early grave. Via: Annalie Howling





Listen to that Frozen song and let it go, let it go! Be it friends, family, anyone causing you distress. Life is too short for that shit. You don’t have to tolerate it, nor should you. I sometimes sit here reminiscing on the level of disrespect I use to allow. Those types of relationships are blocks, letting them go blessed me. Peace of my should always be a priority. Who do you need to let go? Via: We Care Ourselves_

Once upon a time, around this time of year, you could find me on a bender, dreading holiday cheer. Soaking away my blues in drugs and booze. Crippled by depression that my grandmother was gone. Christmas is her birthday. She was my biggest fan and I her favorite grandchild. She always told me I’d do great things, with her up above watching over me. Only when I started raising my vibration did I truly understand. Focusing on being a better version of myself, my mental health became my priority. Wanting to feel good: I cut out fast food, coupled meditation with my daily workouts, created gratitude lists, cut my inner circle (isolate to elevate), decreased my processed sugar intake by literally 95%, stopped partying as much, quit cigarettes, I’ve even stopped drinking whiskey as flu medicine (it works fyi), amongst other things. Causing me to look younger than I did in my 20’s, heal the inner void I once carried, live a balanced life, do the things my grandmother envisioned.
I can’t iterate enough health, including mental, is wealth. Gift it to yourself. It will be the best thing you’ve ever done. The activities listed seem simple, silly even, but they’re baby steps to a happier you. Via: Happy Strokes.In

Life is too, too short to waste time in relationships that aren’t working. In retrospect, I’m incredibly proud of how mature I’ve become. Learning from my mistakes by identifying toxic patterns I need to break. In the past I’ve wasted years on toxic love, waiting around for it, or martyring myself for something that isn’t working. As arduous as it’s been getting away from my abusive ex, my choosing to walk away after one too many red flags shows my growth. I’ve done the inner work. I love myself. Preferring to be alone, than with the wrong person. I knew this baggage wasn’t worth it.
Once I shifted perspectives pertaining to my love life, viewing it as a fairytale not a myth, I knew who my twin flame was.
All the parts about the Princess being saved by true love’s kiss, or whatever their true love does to abscond them from oppression. The only person who can set them free, into a happily ever after. Loving yourself enough to walk away, is the catalyst for receiving what you deserve. In doing so you’re telling the universe “I’m worthy of more,” and something better is delivered. Co-creation. Do yourself a favor, ditch the zero and get with a hero. Via: Sabrina Gazali


People claim to be soooooooo of GOD, yet didn’t recognize a divine. Nor the Bible verses that concur with everything I’ve said about the Devil’s collections, Kardashian Jenner West’s and Melanie Hamrick the rapist murderer. Becoming what you give your energy to. Y’all claim to be holy, but really you’re hypocritical. Your actions, intentions and energy don’t at all align with GOD (the reason many priests try to exorcise demons and evil spirits only to anger them, failing). Bible thumpers are going to hell in droves. A shame to spend your entire life dedicated to something you don’t truly believe in, only to burn eternally. These people are the reason many turn from the Almighty. As soon as they were faced with trials they chose Satan, invalidating a black woman for people who have power and money. Tools of the devil, is that not what the scripture taught? Yet you had soooooo much to say.
I’ve literally had nothing, nothing at times and never once joined forces with evil people. In fact I walked away from Mick Jagger’s (the psychopath abuser) hundreds of millions. Didn’t sell my soul, or join the Illuminati, that seeks financial control. Didn’t put profit over people. Didn’t do evil things to people unprovoked. I stayed with GOD, no matter what, even when I didn’t know I was one.
Guess what hypocrites? You failed the most important test given, the one weighing your souls. Enjoy your time. Clowns, clowns, you’re a pillar of salt now. Xoxo Athena Via: Bible.Verse.17